A Statue For Good Health Please
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
The 7 year old child with a swollen face and a bandage upon his skull tried to smile through his hazy awareness. He wasn’t feeling good, and his face said so amply. His father who accompanied him sat cross legged, angry and upset, and said “I don’t want him to take lifelong medicine. Suggest something else”.
His son was a known case of seizures / epilepsy, and was advised by each one of the three neurologists he had already seen, to continue the anti epileptic medicine. The adamant father not only did not start those medicines, but kept on searching for opinions that suited his convenience and understanding, and treating the kid with unproven herbal therapies and fanatic diets. The poor helpless child, otherwise healthy, had had over three fits in last one week, this time the boy had fallen off stairs during a fit, and sustained a head injury. The father refused to see his own faults, a very common tendency.
“The doctor who bandaged him also gave him some injection. Because of its side effects he is so sleepy” the father added, “He told me to admit the child but I don’t think it is necessary. I want your second opinion ”.
There are rare days when I let my patience be gagged by my duty, some people really do not get simple, humble and mannerful language.
“Sir, you are making a criminal mistake. You are not a health expert, and have no authority to withhold treatment of your dependant, especially a child. It was your mistake to stop the antiepileptic medicine. The child must be seen by a pediatric epilepsy specialist immediately. He is sleepy because of the fit and the head injury. He needs in-hospital care and urgent restarting of epilepsy medicines” I started to notice I was raising my voice. Realising that the child’s well being was more important than correcting his father’s mistake, I toned down and explained to the father that there was no choice, and more fits could risk the kid’s life.
“Can you give hundred percent guarantee that your medicine will cure him?” asked the cunning father.
“No doctor in the world can give any guarantees, and should not too. It is my duty to tell you what is necessary for the health and life of the patient”. I so much wished I had the authority to have the father arrested, and so helpless a situation it was, that there was no agency in India to report this to.
“It is a huge task for us to take father to hospital, you know” said a millionaire recently to me, because him and his four brothers who lived in the palatial mansion built by the same father did not find enough time to accompany him to the doctor.
Thousands of children suffer and even die because their adamant parents refuse to treat them in time, or even refuse to continue the advised treatment. The same fate is meted out to many dependent elderly. The romance of poverty and politics makes it easy to shift all the blame on the govt. / private practitioners who see the patient last, when it is too late.
The IMA, which just correctly advised doctors not to drink alcohol or go to parties, should also draft a proposal of “Criminal Child and Elderly Health Abuse” and pursue it with the PMO. All children and elderly must be taken to the doctor immediately when sick, and following the doctor’s advice must be made a legal binding upon them. Then alone this health crime will stop.
The same quasi-intelligent people who advise doctors to “Keep calm and communicate properly with the drunken, aggressive relatives of terminally brought patients” should also use the same halfwit to advise the community to treat their dependents in time.
This is my sincere, heartfelt request to our kind Prime Minister / Health minister: save our children and elderly who need proper medical care, but are denied the same in time. We need this more than any gardens and decorations, more than statues and memorials, more than any other development. May all the treatment of all the kids below the age of 15 be free all over India, may every kid and elderly be insured for health.
In the service of my beloved motherland.
Narendra Modi PMO (India)
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
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