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The Most Dangerous Indian Cancer

© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

Being invisible, the ability to see others without them seeing you, combined with the inexplicable curiosity about the private businesses of others (for which Indians are world-infamous) makes this an irresistible hobby. Manners and etiquette are the last attributes for which we Indians are credited anywhere, so people think it’s like our birthright to be rude, reckless, abusive and judgemental to others.

Earlier when you criticised others, people questioned your own achievements, showed your own ridiculous stupid past, and what was most feared: often proved that you are a do-nothing hypocrite idiot who likes to relish in being critical and disrespectful of others. People could show everyone what a joke your own life was, how illogical, unreasonable and irrelevant a liar you could be. © Dr. Rajas Deshpande

Invisibility gave all such idiots a protection. The ability to hide behind a fake social media identity and troll others as a group, mob, media, political outfit or – most dangerously- a system which has access to the private information about almost everyone- has now become the worst social cancer that India has ever faced. This is far more dangerous, ugly, vicious and destructive than religious divides (people now know that’s a politically cultivated poison), class divides or any other social disease that has disturbed human fabric especially in India.

Trolling is a deadly disease fast destroying everyone almost everywhere, but worst in India. The reason- it has support from the highest of people who have the ability and authority to stop it but won’t. The courts and the law enforcement agencies don’t seem to have noticed the cruel havoc this is already causing everywhere. A suo-moto intervention to criminalise all fake identities and trolls doesn’t appear uncalled for.

Shall we just accept this trolling cancer as a reality of our times that comes as a side effect of social media supported freedom of speech? © Dr. Rajas Deshpande

Does a coward who hides his / her own identity have that protected freedom of speech? Is it freedom of speech to abuse and denigrate one and all, especially the rich, famous and the respected, to use language that inflicts worse injuries than physical wounds? Is it freedom of speech to threaten murders and rapes, to threaten violence and exposing someone just because they refuse to fall into your traps of expectation and exploitation?

It can NEVER be Indian culture to threaten women with rapes and murders on social media. Which religion, which culture anywhere in the world accepts such treatment of women and kids? Where are the various Indian guardians of regional supremacy, language, culture, clothing, food, festivals etc. when the women and children are abused openly on social media in their land?

Trollers in India reached a new low by threatening a young child of a renowned sportsman recently, and the very country whose who’s who are blabbering about “Beti Bachao” appear all silent. Isn’t it a crime to threaten a child on social media anymore?

Is merely deleting those comments sufficient, is it not required to identify, shame and punish such inhuman trollers?

The idea of being able to express one’s opinion in situations like dictatorships where revealing identity could be fatal is alluring. That’s probably why freedom of speech is protected by many social media platforms. However we now know that many of these social media platforms aren’t the innocent soldiers of an individual’s rights of speech and expression, but (probably sold out) manipulators working for political, international forces which pay them well- or worse- want to spread racist hatred between classes and harbour a supremacy theory, to flaunt numbers, spy upon people and even incite mobs to loot and kill. Many leaders, businessmen, artists, actors etc. have been completely destroyed by such trolling, elections swayed in favour of some, and we boast of an illiterate populace hooked upon free internet as our national pride!

How else do we explain the incessant flow of extreme abuse which has now become a source of income and entertainment? How else do we accept that law, national and international, has kept an option of anyone to open a fake social media account?

This cancer, a “Growth” of wrong practices in the body of every nation, is destroying precious bonds between humans: because everyone has an unseen private life, not essentially criminal, but open for trolling once exposed, and one who owns most trollers will be the King! Unemployment demands increasingly crass entertainment, and the ‘kings’ know this well.

We appeal to the Supreme Court of India to please declare all fake social media accounts illegal, and bring to books the trollers who use lies, abuses and threats online.

© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

Hide, Don’t Seek

Hide, Don’t Seek
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

We are all experts in this.

Mr. SP suffered a stroke, lost his job. Still has to run a family that has kids in engineering college. Since last six months he is looking for work, and is freelancing as an interior designer. To go to work he needs special vehicle. To buy it he needs loan. Bank does not give loan because he does not have a job. RTO will not issue license unless the vehicle is in his own name. He is ineligible for a handicapped- job opportunity because he cannot get a certificate, because there is a huge line for the same in only one center in a large city like Pune, where the handicapped people are expected to queue up starting 4 AM in the morning, without a place to sit or a shade. He has been in this queue for umpteen times, but could not reach the clerk as only limited number of people are taken in. He keeps on spending on the autorickshaw fares, his own medicines, physiotherapy, and limps his way through life cursing his fate. He has already decided that his children will not settle in India.

All that India has learnt in it’s recent evolution is to address him as “Man with special needs” or “Physically challenged” instead of handicapped.

Now he awaits Mr. Mark Zuckerberg or Mr. Tim Cook or Mr. Obama to digitally reach out and solve his problem.

In our evolution as the strongest and the most invested nation, we have shoved below the carpet the facts that we have highest number of unhealthy people who cannot reach or afford basic medical care, hunger deaths, a government-run healthcare system that is worse than dysfunctional at best, a valley of inadequate resources created by senseless laws / rules / red-tapism that mock the possibility of a comfortable living of an honest citizen, where bribe is the basis of any function at almost all levels. Traffic kills not only those on the road, but also those in an ambulance.

This even as we pay one of the highest income tax, and probably the highest duties on almost everything.

Neither women nor children are safe, the political backing encourages hooligans to do away with all the eve-teasing they want. Richest of the rich revel in their 100 and 500 crore successes, multimillion ventures and billionaire statuses in Forbes, while there is no answer to innumerable suicides of poverty ridden populace.
Now we will digitally connect them.

We have learnt the western language in an attempt to impress the western press. With our huge population, there always are enough positive numbers to impress the world, while we hide the negative numbers from the world’s eyes. We have learnt perfectly the eternal art of beautifully colouring a home from outside, while there still are decaying crimes, mountains of unsolved legal / procedural basic issues that eat up the lives of those who live within. The rich-poor gap is at its worst, and the onus is upon the citizen to find legal / illegal solutions to their problems. Audacious corruption stinks in almost every govt. office, but we will sing songs of our own greatness and history. We will die to establish an arrogant historic fact rather than help a dying needy in the present.

We need human connections first. We need internal reforms first.

What will an old sick parent “thrown up by children” do with internet? What will a heart attack patient stuck in traffic do with digitalisation, when there are no sufficient paramedics, and they can’t reach him? How will internet, another “profit-based” venture, provide for food and medicines to those who don’t have money?

Will all this internet access / digitalization solve the issues like rehabilitation of thousands of orphans in the country, rehabilitation of women who have suffered rape, whistle blowers being beaten up and killed in open daylight, a perpetually deficient healthcare scenario with increasing gap between doctor and patient, further widened by draconian laws against the tiny number of remaining doctors?

Just Hide, Don’t Seek answers.

Let us all dress up our best for our new girlfriend: the affluent, civilized western world.

© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

PS: I am strongly pro-digitalization, but it is the wrong God to bank upon for a positive change in our country.