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The Sweetest Pinnacle Of Life

The Sweetest Pinnacle Of Life© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

To many students who are lost in their search for the right aims and goals in life, who trusted me enough to ask that question, I have suggested that they imagine what they actually want in their life at its Pinnacle.

Success, riches, fame, awards and accolades, a legacy, achievements are all good to show and leave behind oneself. The truth is far more than that. Love and care, affection and respect in one’s evening of life is what everyone deserves, but few are fortunate to achieve. For what good is s life that spends its aged years in desolation, isolation, despair of an uncaring, loveless family one has sacrificed much to bring up well?

Hollow words of “show- love” and “pretend care” are commonly employed everywhere, especially among the rich, educated and culture-claiming pundits of humanity.

One experience I have is worth sharing: that the poorest of the poor, like the farmer in the wheelchair here, are cared for with far more genuine love and affection than many. This family collected alms and help to get him to India, and never asked for any concessions, free treatment etc., always saying they were willing to do anything for the happiness and health of this grandpa. His son standing by his side is an illiterate farmer, but is caring for his father . quoting proudly “He brought me up!”. There is no smell of “I am obliging my parent” in his behaviour.

I have met hundreds of Arabic Muslim patients who care for their parents, sons and daughters equally well, willing and with total faith in the treating doctor. It does not change with their financial status. They insist on the parents staying with them, ask questions about their food, exercise, medicines, happiness and comply strictly with the given instructions.

They naturally do not know the words “Culture, Rights, Medicolegal, Elderly care, Nursing Homes, Mercy Killing etc.”. Rarely have I seen them unemotionally “okay” with a bad diagnosis of a parent.

This old man, in my personal opinion, is one of the luckiest human beings upon earth!

© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

Thank you, Mr. Naser Ali, Mr. Abdul Hakim Mohd. Al Malahi, Mr. Majdi Jamil Aiselwi, Mr. Ahmed Anwar Aqlan!

A Prayer For My India

A Prayer For My India
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

From the hypocritical mindset that “I should look only at the positive things around me and ignore all that is negative”, that is like saying “Only my brother’s room is on fire, I can still keep on idiotically smiling and act only when this fire reaches my own room”,

From people who have brought great religious and social events down to roadside vulgar drunken dancing and loud shows of might, from the leaders who ingratiate themselves with superiors and masses at the cost of dignity,

From intellectual thinkers lap-dancing for the rich and powerful by wordplay and linguistic trickery, from the voodoo of political religious misuse that affects even the biggest brains, from a society that is being officially turned into a slob mob that is aroused only by hunger, sex , glamour and money,

From the powers that arrest the life-saving qualified doctors at the drop of a hat and send them to police custody for suspicion, presumption and spite, just as celebrities and politicians who kill in front of witnesses are politically and judicially protected using all the resources that power grants,

From the Testosterone Tongues of Flaccid Bodies in a political system that talk of change but troll, block, imprison, manhandle and kill anyone who dares to challenge their wrongdoings, where men in power flaunt bodyguards while women are abused everyday, where laws and rules are used to blackmail rather than protect, © Dr. Rajas Deshpande

From a judiciary which is fast losing its reputation, struggling for its own identity and independence, from the judges who act selectively and partially and then blame it upon the system’s limitations, judges who suo moto initiate actions only against the weak,

From the laws made by the chosen few who never knew the people they made those laws for, the laws that were made over 60 and in some cases 100 years ago that hinder normal interaction than protect it, from a system which uses the legal options just like mafia weapons to threaten, intimidate and harass those who challenge the system or bring good, ©Dr. Rajas Deshpande

From the mindlessly idiotic enormous paperwork at every stage in every office that wastes time, resources, money, paper and ink in a country whose leaders appeal it to turn green and modern, and invite the progressed world to witness how backward, how traffic-senseless and mannerless is our population, even the educated, who find it mandatory to bestow blows and abuses at the slightest provocation upon the roads,

From the millions who cannot raise their voice against the hundreds of rapes, brutalities, hunger deaths, epidemics or corruption in our own country because they are engaged in criticising and trolling neighbouring countries, proving one religion superior to another,© Dr. Rajas Deshpande

From the filmstars who go to the lowest levels of vulgarity and female skin depiction in the name of entertainment, and promote violence on screen as a routine reaction, confirming that this is a lawless country where goondaism coupled with male chauvinism is a heroic choice in life, where the entertainment industry is fast turning into a mental porn-industry catering to the whims and fancies of mobs,

From the fears that shut up ever good man and woman who loves this country, from the lethargy of the press and media to remove their bejewelled blindfolds and see the naked truth for once, From those in high chairs of power and policing who see the wrong but do not speak or act against it for the fear of losing their chair, © Dr. Rajas Deshpande

From doctors soaked in greed for money and fame, conducting fake or plagiarised research, from the competition and ego amongst doctors which prevents them to come together, from a tendency to take advantage of patients, and from the mindless permissions of “anyone practice anything in medicine” for political gains,

From a culture of self-obsessed, me-cultured, comfort-addicted men and women who are mostly proudly training their children to leave their own country, from a society that has started to forget the sacrifices made by the likes of Mahatma Gandhi, Bhagat Singh, Maulana Azad, Netaji Bose, Lokmanya Tilak, Veer Savarkar and Sarojini Naidu (and many others),

From mothers and fathers who cannot find enough time to raise happy children, seeking excuses in the name of careers and necessities, From teachers who seek pleasure in material gains and marking rather than bringing up fearless generations, from schooling that teaches everything except humanity,

Lord Almighty, please grant me freedom. Lord Almighty, please save my nation.

I am not free of some of the faults mentioned above. But I get tearful every single time I hear the song “Saare Jahan Se Achcha Hindostan Hamara” or even the National anthem.

The only way I can stand up to this great feeling of calling myself an INDIAN is by accepting the struggle, punishments, hardships and poverty that is inevitable when I try to bring in some good changes in my very beloved India.

This is my own personal small freedom struggle for my great nation, India.
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande